In one of the more gracious post-divorce gestures in recent celebrity memory, Tobey Maguire officiated the wedding of his ex-wife, jewelry designer Jennifer Meyer, to music executive Geoffrey Ogunlesi in Hawaii on October 10. The ceremony took place at the Four Seasons Resort Lanai, just weeks after Maguire and Meyer's own divorce was legally finalized on September 21.
The wedding brought together an A-list guest list. Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend Vittoria Ceretti, Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez Bezos, Courteney Cox, Rachel Zoe and Kate Hudson were among those reported in attendance. Meyer's three children were present as well, including the two she shares with Maguire, underscoring how thoroughly the former couple has integrated their blended family.
Maguire and Meyer's story is a study in amicable separation. The actor, best known for playing Spider-Man in Sam Raimi's trilogy, met Meyer in 2003 while he was filming Seabiscuit. They married in Hawaii in September 2007 and announced their separation in 2016 after nine years of marriage. Meyer filed for divorce in 2020, while Maguire filed his response in July 2025, and their marriage was formally dissolved more than a decade after they separated.
Meyer and Ogunlesi were first linked in 2023 and announced their engagement in August 2024. The couple welcomed a baby daughter earlier this year, Meyer's third child and Ogunlesi's first. Ogunlesi is the founder and CEO of the Ogunlesi Group, an entertainment and music management company whose roster includes artists such as Young Thug and Myles Frost.
That Maguire would not only attend but officiate his ex-wife's wedding to another man is the kind of gesture that stands out even in a Hollywood accustomed to unconventional arrangements. It speaks to a conscious effort by both former spouses to put their children first and redefine their relationship beyond marriage, a dynamic they have maintained since their 2016 separation.
The images from Lanai, with the groom's and bride's families mingling and the ex-husband presiding over the vows, offer a counter-narrative to the scorched-earth celebrity divorce. In an industry where breakups so often become battlegrounds, the Maguire-Meyer-Ogunlesi triangle has become an unlikely example of how to do it differently.
Friends of the couple say the relationship between Maguire and Meyer never fully fractured, even during the years of legal limbo between their 2016 separation and the 2025 dissolution. Both prioritized shielding their children from the tabloid cycle, and Maguire's willingness to preside over the Lanai ceremony is being read as the final public statement of that commitment. In an industry where ex-spouses often communicate only through lawyers, the identity of the wedding officiant may be the story's most telling detail.